Mother's Day Weekend

Usually before a holiday, we do that theme for Mommy preschool and Mother's Day is no exception.  We do activities, read books and make crafts about that theme.  This book (that my good friend Calena gave me years ago) totally made me break down this year.  It is so happy, yet so sad to see how fast the little ones grow!  I couldn't even finish the book, and Lucy was saying "Oh Cov, let's give Mommy hugs so she's not sad!"  I was explaining they were happy tears but they were giving me hugs anyways.  They make my heart want to burst sometimes!  

The day before Mother's Day, we had to go pick him up Dave from the airport in the evening, so the kids and I decided to make a day out of it.  First, we visited Martin's Cove.  It's sad thinking this might be our last time there for a while.  That is a special place, which we love.  We had the place to ourselves, and the Senior missionaries...love them!  We got to watch a movie and I think the kids were touched by it.  I know I was :') and they teased me about not being able to hold the tears back. It is always so sweet to hear of the conviction, faith, and courage of these early Saints, even the children!  Then we headed to Alcova Reservoir.  It was too cold to get in and swim of course, but we walked along the shoreline and hiked around the area a bit.  After that it was Fort Caspar, which was very interesting.  We explored the inside part of the museum and the kids filled out their passport books to get a prize and certificate.  Then we went outside to see the Mormon Ferry and the Fort Caspar buildings. We got to see some of the movies that had been filmed in WY and all of the movie posters from them.  The kids thought it was pretty cool! I got a call from Grammie that afternoon wishing me a happy mother's day.  She is so sweet, I love her!  We went to dinner at Burger King and the kids played at their huge play place.  Then we hit up a giant park.  By this point, they were getting quite tired, but still going.  So we went to the mall for a while, but they got pretty tired and were glad it was time to go get Dad.  I have some pretty great kids and love hanging out with them.  We laughed a lot and had a fun day!  Though they all love Mommy, we were so excited to see Dad!

Cal was saying this was the strand of DNA...smart little guy!

Mother's Day was nice, except for the weather.  It was snowing...again!  Let's hope this is the last snow storm and that would be a wonderful MD present.  It was so late when we got home (almost midnight) so the kids were way tired and I knew they wouldn't be up for making breakfast though they really wanted to (and neither would Dave, who was up since before 5, and up until after midnight with lots of exhausting traveling). So I made breakfast for us, cherry brickle coffee cake was on the menu and we all really liked it.  We hurried and got off to church, which was nice.  They didn't have a theme of Mothers in church, but each speaker picked their own topic.  The kids sang "Mother I Love You" and I helped lead them since our music leader was out of town.  These guys, the are so sweet!  Covey's even been singing that song, since we practiced it at home a little bit too.  "Mudder I wuv you, mudder I do."  Bishop called me a couple of weeks ago and told me they were going to release me, since one of my counselors has already moved and we're not too far behind.  So that day, I was released.  I taught my last Sharing Time here on Joseph Smith.  The kids were so smart and so good! I'm thankful for Primary and these pure, sweet children!  Sister Clyde, my good friend  Bryndi, asked the Junior Primary kids who had felt my love and they all raised their hands.  Then she asked who had felt the love of God and Christ through me, and again all of the kids raised their hands. This was such a sweet moment for me.  Even more than they felt the love from me, I felt their love and the love they have for Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ.  I was pretty good and didn't cry too hard. ;) And in Senior Primary, many of the kids came up and gave me hugs and told me thanks and that I'd miss them.  These ones are the Spiritual Warriors needed in today's world.  I love them and hope I helped strengthen them in some small way, and as Bryndi said, I hope they will remember the love they felt from their Primary leaders and from our Father and Savior.  We also made little gifts for the moms, the kids helped me make bath bombs, which were a blast to make.  Then we gave them little papers that said "______, you're the bomb!" and they could fill in who they wanted to give it to and color the bombs.  They turned out fun and the moms loved them!  And now that I'm released, I can have a relaxing day, ha ha!  The kids though gave me this sweet card and basket of fruit. On the front it said "Thanks for being the apple of our eye!  We are so grapeful for your service!  You are berry special to us, and more importantly to God!  Orange we glad God let us learn from you!  You are one in a melon!" and then on the inside it said "Thank you a bunch, Sister Ryerse!" and there were such fun notes from the kids and other teachers inside.

After church, we ate lunch and the kids were so excited for me to open presents, so we did that first.  Their little homemade gifts are so cute, I love them!  Emma made a flower wind chime, a card at home, and a little Mother's Day questionnaire (I love those) which was adorable.  Cal gave me some pansies, a card he made, and some confetti in that bag which turned into a big confetti fight, haha!  Lucy and Cov gave me some chocolate with Daddy that he got at Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory.  My mom gave me a chocolate bar and a book by Toni Sorenson, whose writings I always love.  We called Grandma Di and talked to her. She loved the coloring book we made for her for Mother's Day.  We made them for her and Grandma Sue, and our "grandma" here, Angie.  We put together a bunch of pictures for them to color, since that's kind of a big thing right now - stress reliever and time to meditate, etc.  And then we put personalized notes and quotes and things on there and gave it with some colored pencils.  Mom said it made her cry so I guess that was a success!  ;)  We took Angie's to her that afternoon as well and visited with her for a while.  We also delivered some of the bath bombs to some of our neighbors and the other sisters in the ward who were lonely, elderly, single, and such.  Then, for dinner, the kids and Dave (with a little help, lol!) made Monte Cristo sandwiches at my request.  They were so good!  We played our board game together, had a "chocolate festival" where we tried all of the types of chocolate I got, and then Skyped with Grandma Sue.  I am so thankful for the Moms in my life!    It was a great day with lots of time all together and snuggles, the perfect Mother's Day!

Happy Mother's Day! This morning, it was snowing here and I'm thinking about how as mothers and women we are all so different, yet all so beautiful like snowflakes! There's not a snowflake that is "not good enough" or "wishes they were like that other snowflake" or "did things like the next one". Know how infinitely special you are to God, your children, and me, no matter how you mother! ❄❤😘❤❄

                                     

Meanwhile...spring time in Wyoming

It's been a great and snowy spring!

We've had a few warm days mixed in here when we've been able to break out the bikes and flip flops ("Reunited and it feels so good...).  But all of this snow and cold has still made us have winter on our minds and we've still been spending most of our of time inside.

The kids have been busy making their own music videos...they are so funny!  They have a band whose name changes every day, and I'm their biggest fan.

One chilly night, Cal included in his prayer: "Thank thee that I have the best mom in the world....(pause) and Dad."  Brownie points for this kid!  So not true but it's nice to hear that because a lot of times I heard that I'm the meanest mom int he world from some of my littles.  I love hearing kids pray, and Cal's prayers are always so tender.

Cov's been making this funny/evil face a lot lately...yikes!

Covey has been pretty funny lately and growing out of his clothes...we really need to pull out the next size up but we don't want to because we still need the winter-y clothes!

Cal has decided his lot in life is second place.  At their school mile run, he got second place.  At his grade car derby they had, he also got second place.  He was frustrated but happy at the same time.  It's hard being a kid sometimes.  But he's determined to get first place one of these days, ha ha!

With all of this snow on our brains, makes us think it's Christmastime!  Lucy + Cov + Whipped cream = Santa Clause.  Ho ho ho!

More sweet treats...Cal and his cake.  They loved reading the book Matilda recently, so when we had leftover chocolate cake from Daddy's birthday, Cal pretended he was Brucie.  What a comedian!

                                                       

Lots of indoor goofing off...these two are always up to something funny!

 Cal's so funny and likes to make the cheesiest grins.  One night while video chatting with Grandma Di & Grandpa Scott, Cal was being a cheeseball and smiling crazy like this the whole time!

Many games and books indoors to make the time go by!

Emma's so been enjoying Activity Days and Art lessons.  She loves to doodle and/or read every night before bed.  She also loves her Jazzy cat.  And dressing her up.  I'm not sure how much Jazzy loves this. 

Our family participated in our first Pinewood Derby ward activity!  We talked about what kind of car we wanted to build, and the kids came up with the cheese car, so that's what we did.  Dave did the carving, the kids helped sand it down to cheese wedge, helped paint it.  Dave thought of putting Speedy Gonzalez on it and calling it "Speedy Ryerse".  We had a dutch oven dinner at the church and enjoyed being with our great friends.  Then it was time for the Derby!  Emma started it down the track most of the times, but Cal and Daddy also did.  Ours won quite a few heats, the kids loved it!

I was asked to played my flute in a Jubilante Ensembles donor reception, which I did.  I played a few flute duets with Della, and "Sicilienne" by Faure.  And I had my last Spring concert with Jubilante Ensembles.  We played out in Baggs and then our hometown.  We had a great show, playing some fun things, and a good turnout!  I also got to play Sargeant Bunyon's march with the bell choir, which was a treat.   It's been so fun, I will miss all of these good, crazy people!  Though it's a small community, I'm thankful it's one that promotes the arts so much.  And it's been great to practice so much lately!

One day, Lucy, Cov and I went out to make a snowman...might as well enjoy all this spring snow, right?  Lucy wanted to make a spring snow girl, and it turned out really cute.  She couldn't give it enough hugs!  Our sweet neighbor from across the street brought the kids a big bag of gumballs for the "best snowman around".  They were so excited!  The UPS guys that drove by also gave compliments to the kids on a job well done.  They couldn't be more proud!  Might as well make the most of the snow.  ;)  By the next day, it melted so much the kids started calling it BB8 (Star Wars droid).  It was also awesome, because as the snowflakes fell that day, you could see the crystal formations as they landed in our gloves and on our hair.  Lucy's hair in particular was so fun, she looked like the ice princess!  The pictures don't do it justice, but it was beautiful!  For me, it was a lesson to look for the little things.  Sometimes we have to look down deep and hard to find beauty in life or in certain situations, but it's always there if we pay attention and look closely enough.  Even snow in late April, which everyone seems to be complaining about, he he!

Believe it or not,the sunshine has come out a few times and we've been able to enjoy it!  Bike rides, trips to the park (love that Daddy can come, too!), side walk chalk, walks, eating outside, pretending...ah, love Spring!  We had our own sidewalk chalk festival this year and I love sitting outside and playing along with them. Their side walk chalk festival got washed away when Cal drew some blood on Lucy's self-portrait art, then Lucy drew some on his with a bandaid, and then they kept drawing rude things on each other, like pee on their pants.  And then they used the runny chalk to color on themselves. 

Dave has been interviewing all over here...WY, SD, UT, ID, MT, and this next week CO.  It's been lots of traveling and in and out lately, whew!  Kind of exhausting.  But it's been good and we hope and pray we will find our next adventure soon!  

Surgery Take II

So I recently had the second surgery.  My first was about 20 years ago when I had my kidney reflux problem fixed.  And the second was just a few days ago here.  After giving birth to each of our children, I've gotten an IUD - inter uterine device, and for us, this form of birth control has been nice.  Nothing to worry about, I haven't had periods (except for this time around), and we've always known when it was time to try to conceive again and we've gone in and had them removed with no problems.  Well, around a year ago, we had the feeling that it was time to move forward with our family and I went in to have this IUD removed, when the doctor couldn't find it.  She ordered an ultrasound and we had an internal and external ultrasound with no luck.  So the doctor concluded that it just fell out and we left it at that.  Well, Dave and I tried to conceive with no luck, which was funny for us because we've been blessed to have had no fertility issues.  But we trusted the Lord and his timing, or figured maybe our family was complete.  So fast forward to this spring, my sister Amy (who also had an IUD put in after her first child, and who was also told hers fell out...same thing as me, just different doctors, different places) got a bad sinus cold that just wouldn't go away.  She and Kolby were frustrated and thinking they might not be able to have any more kids without help as they'd been trying well over a year.  Well, she went into the doctors, but her normal doctor wasn't there.  He saw her for this cold, and asked the normal questions.  When he got to the question about "Are you nursing, pregnant or could be pregnant?" Amy broke down a little and explained what they'd been through and he asked more questions to get the full story.  He immediately said they should have an X-Ray to make sure the IUD really was out.  So he sent her on her way with that order and some antibiotics to help with her sinus cold.  She went soon after and got an X-Ray, and sure enough the IUD was somewhere in her right pelvic region.  She called me right away and told me I should go get one as well.  So I scheduled one and the hospital here, and sure enough, there it was...right in my left pelvic region!  Amy recommended Dr. Larson from the Ogden Clinic, so I went down there for my consult and a week and a half later for surgery. It was a huge blessing to be able to get in before the end of the month, as our regular insurance expires due to our job situation right now.  Dr. Larson said that usually the MIA (missing in action) IUD happens when it is placed incorrectly and guesses it perforated through my uterus. He said it's not all that common.  Dr. Larson (and everyone else here!) finds it so crazy that it happened to both of us!  Sisters in all things!  I love Am, and sad enough that it had to happen this way, glad we could go through this together and help each other out.

So the day of my surgery, Lucy said our morning prayer.  In that prayer, she said "Please bless Mommy that she will be brave when they take that thing out of her tummy."  Sweet thing!  Dave and I took the kids to my mom and went in to McKay Dee.  My mom and Dave's mom and aunts and uncles took such great care of our kids!  And Dave took such good care of me!  We got all ready and the operation took place.  It took around an hour and Dr. Larson had a tricky time finding it for a while but ended up being stuck in my omentum,the fatty tissue in front of the intestines.  He said I won the prize for the hardest one to find, but I'm glad it's out now and we don't have to worry about it.  I woke up feeling okay.  I was quite nauseous the first day.  We drove back to the Ryerses to stay the weekend so we could have some help and I wouldn't have to ride in a bumpy car ride home. The kids had a great time and helped Grandma Di in the garden, they created a fairy garden.  They played outside a lot.  They made cookies for me and picked some flowers for me to cheer me up.  When we got back, I slept some more, and then the kids came back for a while to visit.  Shirley and Jeff, Julie & Todd also came to visit too, which was nice to talk to them.  Amy called a lot on the phone to check up on me, and the couple of friends I told about this were texting and calling as well.  The kids went to Mark & Mayela's for a sleepover that night, which was nice so I could rest and not worry about them.  The next day, I was feeling much better and could keep food down and just a little pain but not too bad.  So I'm thankful for that!  I feel so blessed to have wonderful people around to help love and take care of me and my family, and for modern technology and medicine. It's a blessing!  Now let's hope this is the last surgery for a long time!  :)

When we got home, though I just told a few people, word got around and I had a lot of calls, texts, people bringing meals, some watching our kids for me.  It was so nice and made me so thankful for good friends and the Church organization and people's good hearts and their willingness to serve.  My mom made me promise before we went back home if anyone offered help, I wouldn't turn them away.  So I let most of the people help me who offered, by within the week I was doing great again!  I was sore for the first week, but then I jumped on the treadmill and ran and I swear that cured all of the pain!  :D  My family called a lot to check up on me, and though Dave had to go out of town for interviews again, we had people bringing in meals and helping watch the kids.  We are so blessed!